How does one succeed in life?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

I caught my husband of 20 years looking at inappropriate pics of women on TikTok or Instagram. I'm not sure., but when I told him he got mad and made excuses of why they popped up. I then told him how I've snuck on his phone and saw what he's been looking at . We had a horrible big fight. I asked him why did he even marry me when I see the type he likes . Nothing like me, I'm petite, blonde and blue eyes. These women are dark haired dark eyed and have curvy bodies, large breasts, etc. I just don't feel the same about him after this. I can't get over this

Do not set goals—set systems.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

In what ways does Islam oppress women?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Does not procrastinate.

What are some reasons why people may fear strong men?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Ask yourself:

What are "demonic attacks" and how can one tell when they're happening to them, or someone else? How would one go about dealing with it?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Some men love anal sex more than vaginal sex. Why?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

If white people had been slaves, would WLM be a thing right now?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

At what point does trespassing become self defense? What are the necessary conditions for this line to be crossed from trespassing to self defense?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

What is the recommended approach for creating a film or TV script? Should the script be written first or should the story be developed first? Why?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

That's it for today.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Do people of NYC drive around Central Park all the time? Is there any subway tunnel to cross the park quickly? Is it annoying for people and does it cause traffic?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Making more friends is a goal.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

What is the best phrase that sums up Tim Burton's Netflix Wednesday series cast? What is your unedited opinion about it?

Procrastinates a lot.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

What does the stink of the skunk look like? Why would it be dangerous?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

What I need from you?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.